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My girlfriend always get angry when I say a no to the smallest thing. She will make a big issue of it say absured things which will get to my nervers. She doesnt remember all the good things and good times I give her. She will remember all the no's or days I cant go out for lunch dinner with her and forget the nice time and dinners we have had together. She is nice but its just this mood swings that happens to her at times really makes me feel bad.

Is there anyway to handle this? YES!! I mean is there anyway to keep females happy all the time?
 
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Hey,

I obviously dont know your girlfriend - or your culture(I assume your from
India) very well, so take the following with a grain of salt.

If you ask the good Dr Love from AskMen.com he'd say that your girlfriend
is testing you: http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_150/164_relationship_expert.html

/Svend Rost
 
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Originally posted by Rakesh Nadar:

Is there anyway to handle this? YES!! I mean is there anyway to keep females happy all the time?



ALL the time ???

Some strong psychotropic substances should do the job.
 
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Originally posted by Svend Rost:
If you ask the good Dr Love from AskMen.com he'd say that your girlfriend
is testing you



Testing? Sounds like the girl is 'training' him, not testing him.
 
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Dump her.Thats the only way to make girls straight.
 
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Relationship is like driving a car with 2 people controlling the steering wheel. Both have to coordinate to keep the car going.
The ride does not depend on how well you managed till now coz one hard swirl for anyone can end it.
Another case is when one drives and one sits in the back seat. donno who the winner is there.
 
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Originally posted by Ajay Mathew:
Relationship is like driving a car with 2 people controlling the steering wheel. Both have to coordinate to keep the car going.
The ride does not depend on how well you managed till now coz one hard swirl for anyone can end it.
Another case is when one drives and one sits in the back seat. donno who the winner is there.



Are u a MANASIKKK ???
 
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A borrowed idea for people in software.
Make a list of all the things your partner would like. it could be as small as a gesture she/he always smiles at.(asking her to give you a BJ is not a great idea)
Write a program that will randomly pick one of them and email it to you.
make sure you do it.
also revisit your list and add/delete items or atleast shuffle the items in intervals so that you do not get stuck in a pattern.
 
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Originally posted by Jibin J Abraham:


Are u a MANASIKKK ???



Who or what is a manasikkk?
 
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Originally posted by Rakesh Nadar:
My girlfriend always get angry when I say a no to the smallest thing. She will make a big issue of it say absured things which will get to my nervers. She doesnt remember all the good things and good times I give her. She will remember all the no's or days I cant go out for lunch dinner with her and forget the nice time and dinners we have had together. She is nice but its just this mood swings that happens to her at times really makes me feel bad.



This implies that you have not understood her properly before you enter in to relationship.

The reason she is there in your life, is not that you like her (by understanding her), but that you just want to have a girlfriend.

Originally posted by Rakesh Nadar:
Is there anyway to handle this? YES!!



Understand her proparly.

Originally posted by Rakesh Nadar:
I mean is there anyway to keep females happy all the time?



There is only one way to make female happy � give her your credit card.
 
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try this

 
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her.finalize()
 
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Ha, and God said "Let there be GC."
 
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