I could suggest a few things, but it doesn't look like you read our Naming Policy (
http://www.javaranch.com/name.jsp).
We're not a very rigid group around here, but that's one of the few rules we insist on. People who violate it tend not to get answered in a hurry.
The secret of how to be miserable is to constantly expect things are going to happen the way that they are "supposed" to happen.
You can have faith, which carries the understanding that you may be disappointed. Then there's being a willfully-blind idiot, which virtually guarantees it.