Normally, people posting programming questions in this forum get the following message:
This forum is intended for questions and comments about this web site, www.javaranch.com. It is not for questions about the Java language - that's what all our other forums are for.
In this case however, you question has little to do with Java either, so I don't think this site has much to offer you. Perhaps your best bet is to ask in our JDBC forum if anyone known a good resource for getting help in Oracle. Sending e-mail can be done through Java - you can ask about that in our "Other APIs" forum. Good luck.