This week's book giveaway is in the OCMJEA forum. We're giving away four copies of OCM Java EE 6 Enterprise Architect Exam Guide and have Paul Allen & Joseph Bambara on-line! See this thread for details.
I have "Professional Java Server Programming" from Wrox (ISBN 1-861002-77-7) and it would also probably suit your needs. It covers JDBC, connection pooling, servlets, JSP and even has some XML coverage. Several examples, including some case studies are included. Good luck, Bill