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How does someone know that s/he is in love with him/her ??

R K Singh
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Just want to know ....
OR I am suppose to write some story also
Shubhrajit Chatterjee
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Post the story.... we will enjoy
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
Just want to know ....
OR I am suppose to write some story also


Shubhrajit
Badriprasad Bumbabol
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There's no 15-Point Criteria like Mr.Brown's to decide if UK shud join the Euro bandwagon, Dude.
You Just Know when you are in love.
R K Singh
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Originally posted by Shubhrajit Chatterjee:
Post the story.... we will enjoy

There is ony guy named Shubrajit. He has a colleague named Shubra. She is lovely and talkative and good.
Our Shubrajit is also handsome, tall and smart. Now both of them meet in office. They will help each other in their work. They talk when ever they get time also.
He likes her and want to know whether she is in love?
But problem is that she treats everyone the same way she treats Shubrajit.
Now Shubrajit is in dilemma. How to know that whether she loves him OR not.
And the same case is with Shubra also as Shubrajit also treats all feamle co-worker same as he treats her. She also doesnt know whether he is in love or not ?
We also dont know whether they are in love OR not?
How is the story?
R K Singh
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Originally posted by Tintin Herge:

You Just Know when you are in love.

How to know that s/he is also in love ?
One can know abt himself but abt other half ??
Cindy Glass
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Ask?


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Jamie Robertson
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Ask her on a date. If she says no, she probably doesn't "love you for all eternity". If she says yes, she may love you as well, or she may just sleep around alot . But seriously, you won't know by sitting around the sidelines contemplating whether she loves you. Make a move.
Jamie
R K Singh
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I forgot that audience is whole world.
Let me give the details of story.
Place of story does not has open culture.
Going out for date is tough there and it becomes tougher when s/he is living with its parents.
And like Cindy said ... ask?
If answer is yes then its OK else s/he might lose him/her which no one would like.
Very difficult question, but how does one show that you love him/her, here love means not only love but also wants to spend rest of the life also.
[ October 08, 2002: Message edited by: Ravish Kumar ]
Jamie Robertson
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Your best chance is to guess then. Go outside, flip a coin, then go and ask her to marry you if it lands head up ( or whatever is on your coin currency ). :roll: How can you know if you love her, without spending time alone with her? You need to find out what she is like without the inhibitions, or social pressures that society may dictate for her. Maybe she's gay? You'll never know until you get to know what she is like away from all social pressures ( family, friends, coworkers, etc ).
just my opinion
Jamie
R K Singh
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Originally posted by Jamie Robertson:
How can you know if you love her, without spending time alone with her?

Very good point....
but let us say, whatever little time he spend with her alone, with in the pressure of society,family, etc. He likes her.
[ October 08, 2002: Message edited by: Ravish Kumar ]
Beksy Kurian
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Knowing which part of world you are talking about..let me say something which may work!!!
Give her a small gift!
A gift which her girlfriend or lover would not give! And watch her reaction...
Beksy
Cindy Glass
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I diamond ring would work .
Pranav Jaidka
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Ravish ....
No matter what part of the world you are from ,I think if you love someone you should be able to stand up to the pressures of society.
If you cant do that.....dont worry, you wont need an answer in a few months.
If you are sure about your feelings towards him/her .......as cindy says.........Ask!!! If you cant ask about her feelings.......tell her about yours.

Luck
Pranav
Dave Vick
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The 4 step solution....
1. find a flower with petals on it....
2. Remove the first petal while saying "She/He loves me"
3. Remove the next petal while saying "SheHe loves me not"
4. Repeat steps 2 and 3 (in order) until you come the last petal. Whichever phrase you are on is the one that is true.
Enjoy....


Dave
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Sidestepping here, but I've a similar dilemna in the past (way way back and sometimes I wonder...what if...oh like the nicholas cage movie :-)
What IF you like everything about a girl and I mean most everything...but physically she's not what your perfect girl should be (say something trivial...beleive me those things matter when you are 22 yrs old and a walking hard on like most guys that age hehe) would you compromise? or move on coz whats the point regretting it 5 yrs down the line?? women come and go even that good don't they?
Shubhrajit Chatterjee
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Hey thanks buddy

Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:

Our Shubrajit is also handsome, tall and smart.
Shubhrajit Chatterjee
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To add to this solution ....
get a flower with odd number of petals....

Originally posted by Dave Vick:
The 4 step solution....
1. find a flower with petals on it....
2. Remove the first petal while saying "She/He loves me"
3. Remove the next petal while saying "SheHe loves me not"
4. Repeat steps 2 and 3 (in order) until you come the last petal. Whichever phrase you are on is the one that is true.
Enjoy....
Balaji Loganathan
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Originally posted by Cindy Glass:
Ask?

I do agree with you Cindy but thats suits only to a girl who's origin is NOT india(escp south india).
Let's assume that Shubrajit go and tell her(shura)
"Shura!..I feel!.. Ahh..!! i'm in love with you!..,"
thats it immed shura will
1.start crying and tell to him "look!.. i never moved with you in that sense,u r my good friend thats it."
2.start crying and say i you are my good BROTHER and don't hurt me, you guys are always like this,cries again
3.Just before shubrajit proposal,she will tell to him,she is in love with his friend(whom shubrajit hate from the begining). She may even ask shubrajit to act as a messenger between them.
My final conclusion is
1."Girls acts smarter than guys"
2."Men still cannot understand clearly why a women smiles at him"
Regards
Balaji


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R K Singh
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Balaji our heroine name is Shubra not Shura
AW I think , as some one said and I also belive love is nothing but spending time with someone alone. The more you get time to spend the more you feel, you are in love.
And as Bala said
Girls are smarter than buys.
Very true, thats why it is said:
This is men's world ruled by women.
But what problem I see here in everyone's answer is that , everyone is talking considering male to be in dilemma.
Did I hear, someonen saying that all this is true in case of female also .....
Nanhesru Ningyake
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>Girls are smarter than boys. This is men's world ruled by women.
Girls can be divine, devious, devoted, devilish dervishes... but still I'm in love with one of them :roll:
A girl sent this to me:
Eleven people were hanging on a rope under a helicopter, ten men and one woman. The rope was not strong enough to carry them all, so they decided that one has to leave, otherwise they are all going to fall. They were not able to name that person, until the woman held a very touching speech. She said that she will voluntarily let go of the rope, because as a woman she is used to giving up everything for her husband and kids, or for men in general, without ever getting anything in return.
As soon as she finished her speech, all the men started clapping their hands.......
Pratibha Enjeti
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I have been laughing reading the replies for this post especially the one from Balaji!!
Hey! You have analyzed it correctly.
So, here's my two cents on this topic as i know which part of the world we are talking about here--
First of all, when two people are in love, it would be apparant to both of them. Now, the girl may expect the boy to come forward with his feelings.(Depending on the girl's background - if she's traditional or modern, you should be able to figure it out).
It would be better not to have any go-betweens between the two people, even though everyone else looking on may have very good intentions.
Before the gentleman pours out his feelings to her, i would suggest to take her to a casual lunch and be open to any of her suggestions.
Asking out after work may not be the best thing to do.
Be true to your feelings!
Good Luck!
Stevie Kaligis
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Love is photogenic
It needs darkness to develop !
Behind every successful man, there is a woman.
And behind every unsuccessful man, there are two
:roll:
Rick Hightower
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Love fades.... Don't view your mate through Rose colored glasses.
Make sure you find the one you can spend a lot of time with..... like the rest of your life.
Look for someone with a similar background and values as you.
Introduce her to your parents and friends then solicit their honest advice. People in love don't always make good decisions get help from people you trust.
Romeo and Juliet was very romantic but they both died in the end.


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