Commentary From the Sidelines of history
Originally posted by Daniel Gee:
In India, can a guy be so straightforward and ask a girl: "Do you feel the same as I do"? As I know, my friend (F) hesitates to express anything to her (X) and is not good at figuring out what is in the mind of a female.
He (F) is a very good friend of mine. I have seen the girl's picture. She is pretty and decent looking. I really think two of them will make a happy couple. I want to see something works out soon. But, things seem to be mired in Indian tradition and my friend's shyness.
[ August 29, 2003: Message edited by: Daniel Gee ]
Originally posted by <george jr.>:
Women are meant to be used not to be prayed to. I thought it is obvious to Indian people.
Originally posted by Daniel Gee:
I simply do not want to push my friend to the wrong direction because I do not understand the culture..
[QB]My friend is very honest. He is not bold because he is very considerate of others[/QB/
Originally posted by basha khan:
tell Mr F to give flowers or anything like that continousely.and let her feel 'what is wrong with him?'.
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basha
Originally posted by Daniel Gee:
I have an Indian male friend (F) in the mid-20th working for a US multinational IT company in India for about three years so far. He is a smart and hard working guy and performs excellent at work. Needless to say, he is also kind and reliable. Moreover, he programs Java well.
My friend (F) has an Indian female friend (X) who is in the last year of her college education. And her field is in computer science. My friend (F) really likes; well, I mean loves, her (the person X).
Nonetheless, my friend (F) has not yet expressed his feeling toward her (X). And my friend is uncertain about what she (X) thinks of him (F) in the way beyond just a friend.
I am unable to provide any advice to him because of culture difference. I only know my friend (F) recently invited all his pals and her to his brother's wedding held in their home town and she went. Does it indicate something? What indications should my Indian friend (F) observe to find out if she (X) also thinks of him in "that" way? I welcome good ideas and suggestions. Do not provide casual and lousy ones.
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Originally posted by John Todd:
Damn, I remember the university last year.
I know (well I saw to be more specific) the sweetest girl that I have ever seen.
(beautifull + hot + cute + sexy + put whatever you want here) ^ N
I never found the courage to talk to her...
the result ........
I graduated without talking to her and with TONS of heartaces.