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Am I right on interpreting lady's behavior ?

Steve Yu
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My cousin's female colleague often brings some snack or fruit to lunch. And she often approaches him to give him some. I told my cousin that I bet she likes you. But he doesn't really believe, so he wants to bet with me. Do you guys think I have the chance to win ?
Ashwini Mehta
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Maybe shes just being polite. I normally offer around anything interesting I may have got..... on the other hand Why doesnt your cousin ask her out to a casual coffee - vereeee casual, if he doesnt want to be slapped with a harrasment suit
Yeah, I would say you have a decent chance
[ November 25, 2003: Message edited by: Ashwini Mehta ]
John Dunn
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But he doesn't really believe, so he wants to bet with me. Do you guys think I have the chance to win ?
Nope. If he ain't buying his own stock, why would anyone else?


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JiaPei Jen
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I am a female. Your chance to win is 50/50 depending on the character of that female co-worker. I like to share things with others. I have found lots of men tend to misinterpret my generosity and kindness. It is quite insulting.
I hope people could be nice to each other with a free spirit.
Richard Hawkes
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Its all down to the type of fruit and snacks she gives him. Melons and bananas? Your friend is "in there"! Peanuts and dried apricots? No chance.
Jim Yingst
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Maybe your cousin needs to pay attention also to how his co-worker treats their other co-workers. Does she also share with others? Or is the cousin getting special treatment?


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Balaji Loganathan
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Originally posted by JiaPei Jen:
I am a female. I like to share things with others. I have found lots of men tend to misinterpret my generosity and kindness. It is quite insulting.

Is it also happening in America ? Oh! Oh! its a pity.
BYW I'm a guy.
Anonymous
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a friend of mine told me one of his female collegues lift skirt to him in a private occasion...
i think it all comes down to one thing: how do you file your income tax at the end of the year.
no, please do not get me wrong, the cost of the fruit is not deductable.
Steve Yu
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Originally posted by Jim Yingst:
Maybe your cousin needs to pay attention also to how his co-worker treats their other co-workers. Does she also share with others? Or is the cousin getting special treatment?

My cousin said she only gives it to him. That's why I want to bet.
John Dunn
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she only gives it to him
hate to ask, but how many people do they work near?
Tony Collins
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Maybe, your cousin, looks malnourished
Tony Collins
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Maybe, your cousin, looks malnourished
JiaPei Jen
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I agree with John and Tony. I may be relatively closer to one or two guys. Yet, it does not mean I am attracted to them. I also like to show my support to someone who looks less privileged. I wonder if guys know how to be a good and decent friend.
Steve Yu
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Originally posted by Tony Collins:
Maybe, your cousin, looks malnourished

my cousin is handsome & fit.
HS Thomas
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Perhaps your cousin is really shy and withdrawn. Food can break the ice.
regards
Steve Yu
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folks, I think I am right. Just talked to my cousin and he said they were going to watch a movie and have dinner together tomorrow. I am sure I will win the bet.
So, guys, don't overlook ladies' intension...
Anonymous
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Is this your cousin or you in the picture
John Dunn
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don't over look ladies' in tension...

>> don't ??check out?? hysterical women?
... okay
stara szkapa
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I bet it is you not your cousin. I bet you don't have a cousin.
 
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