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How to express effectively what you intend to?

Sidd Kulk
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Joined: Feb 20, 2007
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Hello Rancher, we all(almost all)have faced this problem one time or the other, when we wish to convey something very important to a very important person, be it your boss, your loved one or your adversary, we find ourselves craving for words, our ideas fall short of language. Not that we can't speak, but tension and restlessness blocks our mind.

Any way to over come it??
Frank Silbermann
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Joined: Jun 06, 2002
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Rehersal beforehand. Also know that most of the time, when you think of "What I shudda said" -- you'll eventually have another opportunity to say it.
rohit leeta
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Joined: May 02, 2007
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I think it is more like an emotional issue. Emotions can help you express them a lot and actually they can block you to express them too. So i think this is another dilemma of the life. You cant be optimum, you can just try it.


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Arun Kumarr
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Joined: May 16, 2005
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Start thinking in reality rather than language.
You would find easier to use languauge.


If you are not laughing at yourself, then you just didn't get the joke.
Rahul Bhattacharjee
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Joined: Nov 29, 2005
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Use simple language.Easy to understand and look into the eyes.


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v ray
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Joined: Mar 15, 2007
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count to 5 loudly and then say it
1 mississippi, 2 mississippi, 3 mississippi,4 mississippi,5 mississippi...
I'm sure by then you'd have forgotten all your tension and restlessness, AND the subject on hand!
Aj Mathia
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Joined: Apr 11, 2003
Posts: 478
Think and speak, Dont speak and think.
I feel its a good idea to
Pause
between sentences
and speak out clearly.


You think you know me .... You will never know me ... You know only what I let you know ... You are just a puppet ... --CMG
Milan Jagatiya
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Joined: Jan 01, 2007
Posts: 164
Originally posted by Ajay Mathew:
Think and speak, Dont speak and think.
I feel its a good idea to
Pause
between sentences
and speak out clearly.


yeah...thats true Ajay....


Milan.<br />I can because I think I can...
 
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