use prefer or not

we want to use hibernate in netbean so it is suitable or not or it success?

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Please tell us more details; I don't understand what your problem is.

my question is that in data base connectivity on netbean and hiberneat is suitable or not?

NetBeans is not a platform, but a development environment. It executes Java and other code so you can develop your software successfully. In "real life" you would distribute your code as a .jar. But I am sure you can use NetBeans to develop code using Hibernate and a database. Don't know how to myself, I am afraid.