It it doesn't suite your needs, you can search google for similiar terms.
Be careful with roseindia though. That site is cluttered of poor examples and bad practices.
To the point, this is not JSP specific. It's just all about HTML. Make use of the HTML <object> tag. Just read the documentation of the player in question what's the HTML syntax to embed a video. You can also easily google it if you use keywords the smart way, for example "embed flash html", "embed quicktime html", "embed mediaplayer html" and so on.
I did the same in one of our social networking project.
Try this out....
Ujjwal B Soni <baroda, gujarat, india> <+919909981973>
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