This week's book giveaway is in the OO, Patterns, UML and Refactoring forum. We're giving away four copies of Refactoring for Software Design Smells: Managing Technical Debt and have Girish Suryanarayana, Ganesh Samarthyam & Tushar Sharma on-line! See this thread for details.
You can download the JDK with NetBeans 6.8, and then install the Java EE plugins from within NetBeans afterwards.
To do that, in NetBeans go to the menu Tools / Plugins, select the tab Available Plugins, click the ones that you want to install and then click the Install button. NetBeans will then download and install those plugins into the IDE. GlassFish and all the Java EE stuff is available as a NetBeans plugin.