"Alex idontcare", if you don't care, we don't either.
We don't have many rules here, but one we're stickers for is that you use a real name and not some sort of "handle" or obvious alias
http://www.javaranch.com/name.jsp.
A lot of us don't even bother to answer questions that have bogus display names on them.
The secret of how to be miserable is to constantly expect things are going to happen the way that they are "supposed" to happen.
You can have faith, which carries the understanding that you may be disappointed. Then there's being a willfully-blind idiot, which virtually guarantees it.