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I hate Love Life in Work Place or any Where

 
Arun Giridhar
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Hello Guys,

I Feel someone has crush on me in my work space , it seems to be she is senior to me but people yelling at me Arun , Arun(when ever i go near my senior her friends yell) makes me scared to hell ... I dont like her or anyone . So,how to put that all i wanted to become a Geek in life and i'm not or wanted to go into these stuff , please help me out Javaranch(my family).

Thank You
Arun
 
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Arun Giridhar wrote:Hello Guys,

I Feel someone has crush on me in my work space , it seems to be she is senior to me but people yelling at me Arun , Arun(when ever i go near my senior her friends yell) makes me scared to hell ... I dont like her or anyone . So,how to put that all i wanted to become a Geek in life and i'm not or wanted to go into these stuff , please help me out Javaranch(my family).

Thank You
Arun


I am sorry if this comes out as harsh, but how old are you? 13? 14?
You go near her, and your friends yell, and you are scared to hell? And all this in an office? Seriously?
 
Arun Giridhar
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Yes, i am not 13 or 14 , i am 23 Working in MNC Company.
 
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All this happens in Break Time and Lunch Time (not most of the time all will be in Hungry) .
 
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Sorry for that smiley, but i think you should see the life beyond your office...!!
Its not that, intelligent people don't love anyone. Better you read Einsteins love stories.
 
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Arun Giridhar wrote:all i wanted to become a Geek in life and i'm not or wanted to go into these stuff

Seriously? A geek is someone who is technically strong, and loves to learn new things always. I don't think this stops anybody from going in 'these stuff'.

I'm not saying that you get back to that lady, but don't make any prejudices based on one incident.

If you don't want to go into 'these stuff', then it is absolutely fine. Just make sure that you have a valid reason and that this single incident is not driving you to that decision.

And believe me, life is much more beyond becoming a geek

Besides, a true geek is not 'scared to hell' due to such things
 
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If she is senior than you, then she is the one that will get in the most trouble!

Hold your head up high and don't let it bother you, unless she starts to harass you.

I'm senior here and the girls love me. However I know better.

WP
 
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William P O'Sullivan wrote:If she is senior than you, then she is the one that will get in the most trouble!

Hold your head up high and don't let it bother you, unless she starts to harass you.

I'm senior here and the girls love me. However I know better.

WP


Thank You So MUCH!
 
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You're welcome.

Just remember to start documenting everything that makes you uncomfortable.

Hear-say is one thing, having proof is much better!

WP
 
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