This week's book giveaway is in the OCMJEA forum. We're giving away four copies of OCM Java EE 6 Enterprise Architect Exam Guide and have Paul Allen & Joseph Bambara on-line! See this thread for details.
You want to parse the XML in a .Net language? I would suggest you to look for the language APIs present in the .Net language you are using. I am sure the language will have some implementation of a DOM parser/SAX parser. You can put some effort and search for the APIs present in the language you are using.