Consider using
ant to create your jars and/or copy your war directory to the jboss server. JBuilder integrates with ant: just add build script using add-files -- btw, investigate the use of Eclipse as your
IDE since it has the same pricing structure as JBoss and, like JBoss, comes with a money-back guarantee.
NT/XP does not support symbolic links: as glaring as it is fundamental. If you use Ant you can just copy what you need and it is fast and easy. There is a ranch forum for Ant as well.