Originally posted by Nanjangud Nanjundaiah:
Nancy, we were just trying to pull your (hind) leg Relax. This is MD, don't always expect serious advice from everyone.
In America, people with money to burn usually see a $100 an hour counsellor for these kind of problems.
The options you have are:
1. Unite your parents-in-law; that'll stop your mom-in-law from being so crabby; and will also bring back her daughter.
2. Drive some sense into your husband. You can use a flat-bottomed pan for this. (The pan might get dented, but that's worth it.)
There's one more option: If you are really sincere, and pray to God, you might be blessed with a solution. All the best to you.
[This message has been edited by Nanjangud Nanjundaiah (edited June 27, 2001).]
Originally posted by Jim Yingst:
Perhaps Nancy and Angela share a computer, and Nancy sometimes posts without realizing that the system provides Angela's login by default? Or vice versa? The do seem to use the same IP address. Nancy, please clarify what's going on here - it's difficult to take you seriously under the circumstances.
[This message has been edited by Jim Yingst (edited June 27, 2001).]
Originally posted by Cindy Glass:
There is no such thing as a static class. That would be like saying "This class is a class level class".
Static means
for a variable - there is only one per class not one per instance
for a method - that the method can be executed without the use of an instance of the class.
Originally posted by Andy Ceponis:
Heres an idea.
Start being friends with his mom. Then avt like your gonna do her a huge favor by sending her on a trip to a remote tropical island. Buy her a 1 way ticket. Make sure she gets on the plane and your home free. Trust me on this one.....it works.
Originally posted by Faisal Dosani:
Why is someone asking for relationship advice on Javaranch?
I dont get it... ;D
Originally posted by Shama Khan:
If you can't get rid of the mother in law then you should become great friends with her and also her daughter. Get the mom and sister in law on friendly terms. Make it a threesome friendship of females and still give time to your husband. Then let your husband know that you are able to balance your relationships in your life.
Balance is very important.
Men have it tough - they got to give time to mom and wife - and one of them is almost all the time jealous. But it's up to us - the women - to show men how to balance their relationships.
Shama
Originally posted by J Ash:
I have a suggestion...
Defenitly its wrong from your husband's part to behave this way. I agree to that. But there can be some other story which effected him earlier and made him this much dependent on his mom.
May be if you can give him the same kind of feeling that his mom is giving him, u know, kind of 'listening to all kid talk' - kind of attention, may be.. may be he will find it more comfortable to talk you in the same way as he does with his mother now...
Then I think you can slowly turn him more matured little by little..
Sounds crazy? Sorry.. Thats all a single guy like me could imagine...
Wishing u the very best..