I've been in the same boat - a lot of the tutorials seem to overcomplicate things. They add unnecessary features that obscure the basic functionality.
When you are ready to try the next step, such as a simple chat server, I'd recommend this tutorial:
RMI Chat tutorial It is dead simple, explains things clearly, and has the bonus of showing how the server gets to communicate back to the client using the client's own remote methods. Plus it worked - although I did need to add the "anything goes" security policy from the Sun tutorial, in the server startup command.