Tintin, The world would probably be a better place if there were more people like you (at least in this regards ). You know, fewer unwanted pregnancies, fewer marriages for the wrong reason. Overall, lower divorce rates and fewer abortions, at least it stands to reason. My first love is far more precious in my memory that my first "time". ------------------ I'm a soldier in the NetScape Wars... Joel
Wait a minute, I'm trying to think of something clever to say...<p>Joel
I remember my first "love." Although I had no idea what love was then. I'm 23. I've done "it" but since I've become a christian I haven't even been on a date. That was five years ago. Most people probably think I've hit my head or something. In America if your not hopping from relationship to relationship there's something wrong with you and if your a guy...you must be gay. Since I believe in not having sex before marriage it actually makes since that I wouldn't get in a relationship till I felt I was responsible for marriage. It makes since because how many people (especially guys) can be in a long relationship without having sex? So, I won't get in a relationship till I feel I'm ready and when I do the relationship itself wouldn't probably go longer than a year before marriage. (any longer would be torture)
[This message has been edited by Joseph Russell (edited May 25, 2001).]
posted 19 years ago
I agree with you Joel, my first real love is something i will never forget either. But noone forgets their first time either. No matter if it was good bad or ugly. Joseph i remember you telling me that you did in fact hit your head 5 years ago..... I think thats an admirable thing to do. But you can date women and still wait till marriage to seal the deed. Granted most girls i know would probably be freaked out and dump you if u tried that, im sure there are women out there who would find it sweet.
I had my first kiss (on the lips, anyway) at the age of 27 and I married that girl about 7 months later. The first time I did "IT" was on my honeymoon. So, no Tintin you aren't alone. Paul R PS We're still married 3+ years later.
Ahhh ... that is sweet Hmmm my first love wasn't reciprocated unfortunatly! He wasn't cruel about it though and we were very close friends for some time. My first time ... hmmm well lets just say I would rather be in your position Tintin than have that particular memory! Wish I'd taken my mother's advice. "Wait until you KNOW it's right!"
Pounding at a thick stone wall won't move it, sometimes, you need to step back to see the way around.
I was in my 3rd Standard/Grade/Form when I first fell in love. The girl's name was M. Vidya. I once put the V below the M, and made it look like a heart sign, and she really blushed. We almost always sat next to each other, and usually held hands when the class was going on. Now, 20 years later, I don't know where she is. Probably married. No, we didn't do it then And thanks to my initiation into the principles of Brahmacharya I have stayed that way (Some information about the traditional Hindu initiation process: Here).
[This message has been edited by Nanjangud Nanjundaiah (edited May 29, 2001).]
The Rancher Formerly Known As Nanhesru Ningyake.
posted 19 years ago
Tintin, are you male (and hetersexual)? If so, read on. If not, I'll nuke this post. Angela, if you have found someone lately, again, I'll nuke this post. Hmmm...I see two posters in this thread who are both single and in London -- Tintin and Angela. Both have expresses lonliness at in different posts. Why don't you two get together? Even if there is no attraction, I bet you'll have fun wherever you decide to go. Whaddaya think? Good idea -- no need to post, just send a private email or two. Bad idea -- no need to post, send your flame to firstname.lastname@example.org Putting on my suit of asbestos. Paul R
First love or kid love.....i know not. At 8 was greatly attracted to this vivacious girl in our class. We were of the same age. On way back from school our buses would cross and I remember furtively trying to catch a glimpse of her ever smiling cheerful face. That was 24 years back and I still have a vivid pic of her in my mind! -EB.
Tintin, I think it's great you're being so honest about this. A lot of people (especially men) I've known tell each other lies about this just to look cool. As for my first time, I was nineteen and it was...yikes! I don't even want to think about it! So it probably wouldn't have hurt to wait. On the other hand, I must admit I was glad to get it over with. It seemed like such a major issue at the time... As for you, you've probably been busy with things far more important. Or maybe you're just picky? Nothing wrong in that!
Hi TinTin!! Im sad to hear that U didn't enjoy that.I'm also 24 not yet enjoyed that one.But I'm in india.This is our culture.Now only the western culture is followed slowly.So I didn't worry for that though I didn't have any GirlFriends still now But U R in london.That's why I felt sad.ok.Nothing bad in it. Best Wishes for U'r First Time Regards, chandran..
posted 19 years ago
First of all my apologies to everyone for starting this and then Disappearing. Just too busy saving my job cos they are gonna lay off some people next week. Anyway coming to Raajesh's point, Dont be sad for me buddy cos I am not. If I had wanted, I cud have done "it" with at least 2 of the 3 girlfriends I've had in the past 3 years. But for me, sex is something very sacred and innocent. And I want to be truly in love with the person with whom I will have sex eventually. All 3 were good Human beings but didnt have that something and we had a very amiable breakup. With the last one , we almost did it before realising the futility of it. Abt Paul's Idea , I guess we will take that Offline. Rosie, thats a nice thing to say and I must say u understand people quite well. Eager Beaver, i guess the one u r talking abt is more a crush or an Infatuation rather than love when u know nothing abt her and still like her. I am sure people have lots of them. All in All , what I gather is : U remember your first time more vividly than their First love. So I am looking fwd to my First time then cos If my first love memories were so strong, I cant imagine how strong the First time memories wud be. Tintin