Originally posted by Max Habibi:
What is a hard man in your mind, and why do you want to become one?
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Make visible what, without you, might perhaps never have been seen.
- Robert Bresson
Originally posted by Gerald Davis:
I need some advice on how to be a Hardman. I know that it is all about image: body language and choice of words. I am already started a weight training a couple of weeks ago.
Regards Pete
Originally posted by Peter Rooke:
Move up North - I always thought the people in the south regarded us 'Northerns' as rough barbarians.
PS - A few years back, I walked past Sarah Alexander (actor who plays 'Susan', in 'Coupling'), she's a bonnie lass.
Regards Pete
Originally posted by Gerald Davis:
I need some advice on how to be a Hardman. I know that it is all about image: body language and choice of words. I am already started a weight training a couple of weeks ago.
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Originally posted by Michael Herrmann:
So your goal is to be good with women?
Make visible what, without you, might perhaps never have been seen.
- Robert Bresson
Regards Pete
Originally posted by Peter Rooke:
"Do you know what you are?, You are what you is ..So see what you got, You are what you is, An' that's all it 'tis" - Frank Zappa ('You are what you is').
Originally posted by Michael Herrmann:
And looks are not as important to women as they are to men. How you behave is much more important.
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"I try my best to make *all* my posts nice, even when I feel upset" -- Philippe Maquet
Originally posted by Mapraputa Is:
Why not to try to find a woman who will like you for who you are?
Originally posted by Michael Ernest:
I *believe* the US term for what you mean is "hardbody."
At a minimum, you need well thought-out, high-protein eating plan, a prescribed balance of anaerobic/aerobic exercise, resistance training, narcissism.
How can you tell if you're a narcissist? Look in a full-length mirror. If you have to go find one, sorry, you ain't.
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Originally posted by Gerald Davis:
I know this already, I have done the research much research and if looks only mean 20% for woman but it is something worth improving on and to me its a much simpler thing to improve on, its just a bit more painful as I do 14 sets with 200 kilo weights on perfect form.
Behaver is so much harder improve on then say weight loss, a hard-body, appropriates dress sense, mainly because it is very hard to monitor and less black and white.
You approach is very logical indeed but seeing what woman respond positively however I will do this after I have become a Hardman. It would be a lot easier to give up those elements of being a Hardman that woman do not like opposed to then learning those elements that woman like in a hardman. If I learned to be a Hardman doesn't mean I would change inside, and develop an ignorance and aggression that most Hardman have.
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Originally posted by Gerald Davis:
...its just a bit more painful as I do 14 sets with 200 kilo weights on perfect form...
-Dan
Originally posted by Dan Maples:
200 kilos??? as in 440 pounds... thats like the weight of 3 people... 14 times?!?!? Am I missings something here? Did I convert incorrectly?
Originally posted by Gerald Davis:
There is where I stay to myself good logical functional composition, to learning to please a woman by finding what pleases them keep it up might be hard if that particular behavior is not native to me. The chances are it is native to a hardman ,my complete social opposite so it is good to learn how to be one.
It is synonymous with learning the marshal arts.I learned marshal arts bare-knuckle-boxing with an occasional kick, some opponents require more kicks some others would be easier to throw. If I lived in the world of the Judo fighting and learn the science of throwing and grappling and if I was to learn how to kick from the best kicking marshal arts, wouldn�t I be a better marshal artist for the experience.
For the last fifteen years, I have learned what the social norms about relationships.
Most of them are based on false analyst combined with the need to protect the interest of society. We wouldn�t want to encourage rude boys and hardman bad behavior in our society would we?
If I were a hardman wanting to get in touch with sensitive and kind self, It wouldn�t surprise me if no one said to me �just be yourself that is the way woman like you�. The only difference in the situation is I am a geek getting in touch with my bad self.
You would be surprised what can be disproved in the interest of our society , in this scientific era where man has traveled to the moon and not all of them are religious ;some of them however has become a religious norm to make them stronger.We live in a world of lies and only science is the only reliable truth.
-Dan
Originally posted by Gerald Davis:
From now on I will just try to lie to myself as I try gulp down a disgusting tasting beer at the pub instead of drinking a girly cocktail which I prefer when I am with my friends.
This is a much more sane thing to do.
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