First, let me get this out of the way, because I really think it needs to be addressed: why are you developing your own webservice framework?
If you are building yet another web service framework as an open-source/commercial alternative to existing frameworks, or just as a "fun little exercise", by all means feel free to ignore me.
However, if you feel you need to roll your own web service framework out of necessity, as part of a larger project, I'm curious about why existing frameworks don't meet your requirements? I'm not really up to speed on the latest developments of every available webservice framework out there, but I know aleast
Apache Axis2 offers asynchronous web service support.