Please ask questions where the experts on the topic can see them. Don't just post questions in the first forum you see, Otherwise we end up with a great big mish-mash where nobody can find the answer to anything!
We have a Hibernate forum for the Hibernate question you recently asked, and we have a Struts forum for questions about Struts.
The secret of how to be miserable is to constantly expect things are going to happen the way that they are "supposed" to happen.
You can have faith, which carries the understanding that you may be disappointed. Then there's being a willfully-blind idiot, which virtually guarantees it.
If you have a bad day in October, have a slice of banana cream pie. And this tiny ad:
a bit of art, as a gift, that will fit in a stocking