Don't make the methods synchronized but use synchronized blocks inside the method. This gives you a finer grained control over when locks are acquired. In this case you have two options:
- always get the parent lock first, then the child lock
- always get the child lock first, then the parent lock
It doesn't really matter which one you choose. The import thing is that the order is always the same, no matter which two objects are called.
In the following code I chose the second option:
Note that two methods are still fully synchronized. That's because there is only one lock acquired when those methods are called, so they introduce no extra risk of deadlock.
There is still a potential for deadlock, if you are treating two TreeNodes as both parent and child, e.g. by adding them to each other.
Before considering how to also handle the last case Rob mentioned (if you choose to do so), I think it may be helpful to simplify the code a bit. Consider:
Should setChildOnly() and setParentOnly() be public at all? It seems to me that the public API should only be methods which will leave the two objects in a consistent state, ensuring bidirectional links. What reason does anyone outside this class have for calling setChildOnly() or setParentOnly()? For that matter, I'm not sure if anyone inside this class really needs both of these methods. That can be decided later.
Do we need complex synchronization code inside both setChild() and setParent()? Or can we just call one method from the other?
In fact I'm not sure both these methods need to be part of the public API, as it's easy for someone to mistakenly think they need to call both of them - they don't. And anyone who wants to call a.setParent(b) can easily call b.addChild(a) instead, and be done.
Now, "complex stuff" could be exactly what Rob wrote for addChild() - it works well for everything except the case he noted, two nodes (accidentally?) made children of each other. If you want to also handle that case, I think it's probably easiest to avoid using synchronization entirely, and instead use either (a) methods from java.util.locks.Lock, or (b) optimistic locking techniques using AtomicInteger or AtomicLong. I recommend Java Concurrency in Practice if you want to learn about these techniques in detail.
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