That sounds frustrating paul
I had some issues with minikube early on when I mostly used a Mac and ended up having better luck with Docker For Mac's Kubernetes add-on when they released it. Lately I've been running Linux on my workstations and minikube has been much better. I have also been impressed with microk8s on Ubuntu. I haven't had to use Windows as my main workstations much but i sounds like maybe the user experience with minikube on Windows is less than ideal right now
I also pretty regularly find myself spinning up a GKE cluster to
test something complicated, or to try out something with Ingress on GCP, and then tear it down when I'm done. I'm lucky that we have some budget for those sorts of quick tests where I work. AWS, GCP, and Azure all add free credits on new account sign up so you could always spin up a new throwaway account on one of those platforms if you wanted to try something out short-term.